Friday 10 October 2014

Brainstorming 10 relationship triggers that can spoil a good thing...

I'll limit it to 10 for now and see how I get on

1. Complaining about your partner in a derogatory way to others or in public. (it's bad energy/karma.. hard as it may be.. sometimes its best to keep schtum))
2. Emotional, physical, or mental abuse ( now that's just wrong.. and everyone knows it)
3. Unhealthy competition due to fear insecurity or jealousy ( grow up)
4. Excessive lies ( Pinocchio)
5. lack of care and attention ( hello...)
6. Poor or lack of communication ( we have so many ways to communicate these days but do so less and less. you cant say it all in text speak)
7. Lack or trust/ Breech of trust ( who is the person really.. I mean .. really)
8. Taking a lover for granted ( say thanks at least.. they don't have to be with you)
9. Not listening ( HELLO.. I SAID NOT LISTENING)
10. Assumptions ( don't be lazy.. hear say wont cut it..do your own empirical research )

Do you have any?

2 comments:

  1. Don't steal jokes. X would become angry over funny things I said, but later I would hear him say them to a group of people to get a laugh. He often stole the credit for things I did.

    Love,
    Janie

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    1. Yep.. added. Dont steal Jokes
      and don't take credit for something your partner did.. yet you once ridiculed - aka... don't be an arse

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